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Getting Back Together

 “What Can I Do To Get My Ex Back”

Are you suffering from a break up you didn’t really want? Do you ask the same question over and over again - "What can I do to get my ex back"?

Firstly, let me tell you, the emotions you’re going through right now are all quite normal reactions to loss similar to grieving and the intense pain you’re feeling can be stopped.

Obviously right now you’re serious about saving your relationship and getting back together, which is why you are reading this article in the first place. But if you let your emotions get in the way by feeling overly anxious or upset, you may be behaving in the wrong way, which will make your ex pull away naturally.

This is because it’s human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, it will only make you feel worse and it might even make the whole situation worse.

If you’re passionate about getting back together with your ex, here are some things you can do that will greatly improve your chances.

Getting Back Together Mistakes

To begin with here are some things you should not be doing if you want to get your ex back.

Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you?

If you are doing any of these things, you must stop!

If you’re asking yourself "What can I do to get my ex back", then you need to stop doing these things right now and change your approach.

The first thing many people do after they break up is panic but this is one of the worst things you can do. Pleading, begging, trying to make your ex feel sorry for you and trying to make your ex feel guilty about leaving you will only push them further away.

So do not do any of these things, instead read through the steps listed below and start using them as soon as possible.

Getting Back Together Steps

To answer your original question: “What can I do to get my ex back?” Simply follow these steps:

You need to take a completely fresh approach.

Begin by breaking off all contact with your ex for a while, start doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex, it’s important that you focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand.

This is the most important step and it will put space between you both so that you both have time to think. Your ex is not going to listen to you until you are emotionally stable so giving yourself space and time to think will help you put things into perspective and keep your dignity intact.

Understand... this is going to be a challenging time for you, and it’s going to require discipline to prevent yourself from returning to your old ways. But you can do it.

During this time of no communication, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you’re no longer pursuing him. And two things are going to happen.

1. He will become curious as to why you’re not pursuing him anymore and you will become mysterious to him, because he won’t be sure of what you’re doing, thinking or feeling. And ...

2. This is where things start to turn around and begin to work in your favor because now your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which is something he couldn’t do when you were contacting him all the time.

The Key to Getting Back Together

If getting back together is your greatest wish you must remember that the key to making this work and repairing your break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it.