How To Make a Man Love You
You are not alone if you don’t understand how to make a man love you. Men say and do things that a lot of women find mystifying.
For women the dating process is straightforward, you meet someone you like and you want to spend all of your time with them. It seems logical to women. After all, what’s the point of seeing someone you don’t want to spend time with?
This is where the difference between men and women causes the most problems and a relationship with a man can be doomed from the word go.
Telling a man you love him too soon can send him running from you. Likewise, if a man picks up that you are too involved or likely to get too serious he will have warning bells ringing inside his head. One wrong move from you or a badly timed declaration will confirm his fears about you with dire consequences.
Men love their freedom and they love making their own decisions.
So what’s the best way to make a man love you?
Do the opposite of what most women do. Whatever your initial instincts may be you must learn how to think like a man. Remember, men love to chase and a man will do anything to get to the woman of his dreams.
This means to make a man love you, you have to behave in such a way that he feels he has to work to get your attention. The more time and effort he puts in to dating you the more committed he will become in the long run.
So what should you do if a man shows signs of cooling off? Most importantly, don’t, under any circumstances, try to hold on to him. If a man shows signs of walking away, you should turn round and walk smartly in the opposite direction.
He will expect you to go after him, because all women do. His defenses will be up against you; he will anticipate your every move and have ready made excuses waiting.
If, on the other hand, you simply disappear out of his life quietly and with no fuss, you will bring him up short. He will question his own reasoning, maybe you weren’t as serious as he thought you were. Maybe he was wrong. Maybe he acted too hastily.
It can take anything up to six weeks for a man to realize that he’s made a mistake and he really does want you. During this time he must truly miss you and feel genuine pain at losing you, the stronger his pain the more likely he is to return. This is one of the reasons you must not contact him.
You must give him time to think about it and the space to make his own decision.
Many men just aren’t ready to commit to a relationship with one woman and they enjoy the dating scene. Some actually prefer changing their partners regularly until the day comes when they want to settle down. It has a lot to do with timing and being in the right place at the right time.
Most women know instinctively when they meet a man they can bond with but men aren’t like this. The most effective way to make a man love you is to behave as though you don’t see him as long term.
Give him as much freedom as he wants, encourage him to go out with his mates and make sure you keep an active social life going of your own.
You might find some men tend to talk about other women a lot when you first start dating them. This is a built in mechanism and is nothing to feel insecure about. In effect, they are saying, don’t get too serious with me even though they may be genuinely attracted to you. The best way to deal with this is not to take it personally. Don’t show any signs of jealousy or insecurity.
Do the opposite of what he expects you to do and show an interest; ask questions in a light and fun way. Encourage him to date these other women or ask him when he will be seeing them next.
This one tactic alone will have a magical effect on a man because if he thinks you are not that interested in him he will want to pursue you more. It’s in his nature. It works like a charm and is one of the easiest ways to make a man love you.
Let him know you enjoy his company but you have other friends as well.
He will then see you as someone worth pursuing and if you give him the space to fall in love with you, he will want to remove you from the dating scene before someone else steps in and takes you away from him for good.
Learn to play the dating game by his rules and you will have him eating right out of your hands.
If you keep yourself just out of reach emotionally he will try harder and harder to win you over until you become the most important person in his life. And then you will have discovered the secret of how to make a man love you.
More information:
The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want To Leave.
Here's the hidden key to a loving relationship. Men want to be enraptured by a woman. They may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched, possessed and seduced by a woman -- and they don't mind surrendering to her siren maneuverings and be rendered powerless by her. A man would gladly give anything to the woman who can make him feel good.
Unfortunately, most women simply don't know how to make a man feel good. Believe it or not, the majority of women have the mistaken notion that learning a few sexual tricks and bedroom stunts from Cosmo and the Kama Sutra, or cooking him sumptuous meals "better than Mama ever made" ought to do the trick -- and their man would stay devoted to them forever.
That's an outdated mode of thinking derived from the old wives' tale that says "The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach" -- or his crotch, in most instances. If that were true, then sex therapists, prostitutes and professional chefs would have the best marriages, wouldn't they?
There's so much more to making a man feel good than meets the eye.
The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want To Leave. How To Captivate A Man, Make Him Fall In Love With You And Give You The World!
Bob Grant, L.P.C.
How Do I Get Him Back?
Sometimes, when things go wrong, we need a little help from someone who knows the answers. Bob Grant, L.P.C., known as the 'Relationship Doctor', is a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship coach with 16 years of successful practice.
Bob says, "When a man leaves a relationship, and the woman wonders where she went wrong, and tries desperately to get him back, that's actually a common pattern I've seen all too often in man-woman relationships. It certainly causes a lot of distress in women -- but the good news is that there's an easy solution to this problem!"
How Do I Get Him Back? For Women Only! How To Get Your Guy Back Even When It Seems Hopeless.
Bob Grant, L.P.C.
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